Where Are You Bullsh*tting Yourself?

There's a question in here you're going to want to skip. That one's yours.

Here's the research behind that: economists call it the ostrich effect. Investors check their portfolios less when markets are down, researchers caught them doing it. And a whole review of the field found people avoid answers that are free and useful when the answer might sting, partly because knowing would ask something of them. The question you want to skip is the one carrying news.

So this doesn't score you, rank you, or give advice. Honest questions across the parts of life people lie to themselves about most: work, love, the bigger life, money, the pattern that follows you, and the thing you already know. You read them, you notice the one you'd rather not answer, and the last page routes you by that flinch to the reckoning built for exactly it.

It plays fair. If fine is the true answer, the page says so and lets you go. If a question finds nothing, nothing gets invented. And if the one that stops you is enormous, the pages can hold it: one sentence, once, on paper, and then a door built to carry it further.

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One of the questions inside:
"What did you stop wanting, and start calling realistic?"