No More Bullsh*t
The Real Life List
The Real Life List
For when fine isn't enough anymore.
52 questions about the life you're actually building. Not the one you were sold. What you want. What you've been settling for. What would have to be true for you to feel alive in it.
Same four-page structure as Real Growth and Love & the Real You, turned on the life itself. The question you've been circling, the Truth Trigger that names what's really going on, the Through Line to think it all the way through, the Deeper Cut that doesn't let you off easy, and a mantra that shows up in your head on a random Tuesday.
52 prompts. One a week for a year. Start anywhere. Just be honest.
The Real Life List is for the version of you that already knows fine was never the plan, and is finally willing to say so on paper.
Direct orders ship within the US only. Outside the US, it's on Amazon. The images shown are the original edition while the new cover design is being finalized.
From readers:
"It's tapping into a part of me I maybe don't want to face, but I need to face."
Nina
"For anyone who wants to cultivate their introspection and see their life from a different prism."
Alexandre
"I took it on vacation with me. It was the gift I gave myself."
Simone
"I opened it, read one question, and had to close it. That one question was all I could think about."
Maria
"Productive and fun to do. Going to buy as gifts."
Jocelyn
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What readers are saying.
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★★★★★
“Having tried various journals and even life coaching, I can say this one is different. That single prompt was a catalyst — I implemented real changes within weeks. It feels less like a self-help book and more like a supportive friend saying, ‘I’m in this with you.’”
— Dana R.
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★★★★★
“The prompts helped me to unravel some core mistaken beliefs and recognize where I had been BSing myself. A clear guide for establishing actionable steps for lasting change.”
— Marcus T.
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★★★★★
“I’ve been going through a career shift and I’ve loved having these prompts to reveal what I want next. I find I sit with the question all week and it really impacts how I’m approaching things differently.”
— Claire M.
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★★★★★
“This journal helped me sort out fears and emotions I’d been holding onto for years. It’s great for those curious about therapy but not ready — or don’t have the time — to seek external resources out.”
— Priya N.
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★★★★★
“The questions help you find the dark spots of the mind and the result is a clear perception of what needs to change and how.”
— James K.
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★★★★★
“I opened it, read one question, and had to close it. That one question was all I could think about.”
— Jess M.