No More Bullsh*t
Love & the Real You
Love & the Real You
52 questions about who you are in love. Not just who you're with.
Not therapy. Not advice. The questions you've been avoiding about how you act when it matters most, and why you keep doing it the same way.
It's built on the same four-page structure as Real Growth, turned on love instead of work. Each prompt opens with a question you've been sitting on, then the Truth Trigger names what's underneath it, the Through Line gives you room to be honest without performing, the Deeper Cut goes beneath your first answer, and a mantra you keep with you when things get honest.
52 prompts. One a week for a year. On love, attachment, connection, and the ways you protect yourself.
This isn't about finding the right person. It's about being honest about who you've been in love, and choosing, from there, what you actually want.
Direct orders ship within the US only. Outside the US, it's on Amazon. The images shown are the original edition while the new cover design is being finalized.
From readers:
"It was a great way to jump-start my day with a bit of introspection and radical self-honesty."
Kyle
"This journal helped me sort out some fears and emotions I'd been holding onto from past relationships."
Nycole
"I've been scared to open it. I think that tells me I need to."
Rachel
"Sometimes you need a friend in a journal to be like, hey girl."
Natalya
"I've teared up reading through your notes. They're so clever. I felt like I wasn't doing this alone."
Claire
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What readers are saying.
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★★★★★
“Having tried various journals and even life coaching, I can say this one is different. That single prompt was a catalyst — I implemented real changes within weeks. It feels less like a self-help book and more like a supportive friend saying, ‘I’m in this with you.’”
— Dana R.
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★★★★★
“The prompts helped me to unravel some core mistaken beliefs and recognize where I had been BSing myself. A clear guide for establishing actionable steps for lasting change.”
— Marcus T.
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★★★★★
“I’ve been going through a career shift and I’ve loved having these prompts to reveal what I want next. I find I sit with the question all week and it really impacts how I’m approaching things differently.”
— Claire M.
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★★★★★
“This journal helped me sort out fears and emotions I’d been holding onto for years. It’s great for those curious about therapy but not ready — or don’t have the time — to seek external resources out.”
— Priya N.
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★★★★★
“The questions help you find the dark spots of the mind and the result is a clear perception of what needs to change and how.”
— James K.
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★★★★★
“I opened it, read one question, and had to close it. That one question was all I could think about.”
— Jess M.