{"title":"Starting Over","description":"\u003cp\u003eThe breakup. The move. The chapter that ended before you were ready. The version of your life that made sense, until it didn't. These reckonings are for the rebuild, when the old context is gone and you're figuring out who you are now without it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eNew here? Start with \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/www.nomorebsjournal.com\/products\/before-you-shrink-your-life\"\u003eBefore You Shrink Your Life\u003c\/a\u003e, so the rebuild doesn't quietly become a smaller life. It's free.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eNot sure what a reckoning is? \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/www.nomorebsjournal.com\/blogs\/news\/faqs\"\u003eHere's the short version\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"is-this-still-worth-it","title":"Is This Still Worth It? 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